There’s something inherently magical about a kitchen. It’s where we feed our families, create memories, and, often, find moments of peace amid the hustle of daily life. But, as I reflect on the evolution of home design, I can’t help but think about how the kitchen has shifted over the years—especially in the context of how we, as women (though not exclusively), have been seen and valued for the work we do in these spaces.

In older homes, like the one we live in, kitchens were tucked away in the back corners, often out of sight, serving as just utilitarian spaces. You could almost imagine the cook’s work was done in secret, away from the family, with little recognition of the effort behind it all.

Fast forward to today, and you’ll find that kitchens have become the centerpiece of the home. The island is the gathering spot, open to the family, friends, and visitors alike. The days of hiding away in a dark corner while prepping meals are gone. Today, the kitchen is no longer just where meals are made—it’s where life happens. It’s a place of conversation, laughter, and sometimes even a little chaos, but it’s where everything that really matters comes together.

I think this shift speaks volumes about how women’s roles have changed over time. The work we do in the kitchen—the cooking, the cleaning, the organizing—has long been undervalued or, worse, invisible. But now, it feels like there’s finally a growing recognition of this work. And not just that—it’s being celebrated. Visible through the shows like With Love, Meghan, Magnolia Table, and the resurgence of Martha Stewart and Ina Garten.

The kitchen, once an afterthought, is now appreciated as the heart of the home. Not just for its function, but for the care and attention that goes into it. The labor, the love, and the creativity that goes into preparing a meal for your family or friends—it deserves recognition, right?

Now, let me take a quick moment to clarify that I absolutely understand this work isn’t limited to women. Many men, children, and other family members also roll up their sleeves and pitch in. The kitchen isn’t defined by gender; it’s about the care and effort anyone puts into creating a space where nourishment and connection happen. So, whether you’re the one stirring the pot, setting the table, or doing the dishes—your efforts are truly appreciated.

And, if I’m being totally honest, the only thing I really like about new construction homes is the kitchen. I mean, let’s be real—the idea that the kitchen can be at the heart of a home, visible and accessible to all, is a step in the right direction. But the rest of those sterile, cookie-cutter designs? Not so much. I’ll take my vintage charm and thoughtfully restored fixtures any day, thank you very much.

As we continue to breathe new life into homes of the past, let’s not forget the significance of the spaces we create in them. The kitchen isn’t just for cooking—it’s where we share our lives, our stories, and our love. So, the next time you’re in the kitchen, whether you’re the one preparing dinner or simply enjoying the fruits of someone else’s labor, take a moment to appreciate it for what it is—the heart of the home, no longer hidden, but proudly on display.

Thanks for joining me in this week’s reverie. I’ll see you next time, when we continue our journey through the beauty and soul of home life. Until then, may your kitchens be filled with warmth, mess, and appreciation.

Love you all,

Lauren